If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，然而却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

One may fall in love with many people during the life time. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

人在一生中也许会爱很多人。但等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白，之前的伤痛其实也是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

人在年轻的时候也许会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着时间的流逝，终于领悟，如果你真正爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间都不够。你需要时间去慢慢地去了解，去体谅，去爱上，而这一切都需要有非常宽广的胸襟。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we‘re pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up.And we become different.

当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着前行。这不是相邻火车开过时，你前进的错觉，而是我们真的在成长， 成为了另一个自己。